Thursday, June 12, 2014
Monday, May 26, 2014
My husband and I went to see X-Men: Days of Future Past. I enjoyed the action, I was entertained, and I am interested in what I notice in a second viewing. That said, as with most Geek things these days, there are always things that could be better. The Mary Sue has a good post on the diminishing of Kitty Pryde's role.
We got home from the movie Saturday night, and I got on to Twitter intending to share a couple of thoughts, only to discover that #YesAllWomen had begun, in response to the Santa Barbara shootings. Three hours later... I took a break for some sleep.
Over and over again, as I begin to talk about my experiences with colleagues at work, I find this "bury my head in the sand" reaction. Some of the responses have been mansplaining.
Other responses have been from Men's Rights Activists. Which is pretty weird because feminism cares about the rights of fathers to paternity leave. Feminism cares about the respect and well-being of at-home parents, whether mothers or fathers. Feminism cares about the abuse of power.
I'm done with the hashtag now. There has been interest in keeping it going, to keep light on the subject. I know that the conversation must continue, however the originator of the hashtag is getting unwanted attention and would like some peace now.
If you are a man, you should know that women experience those things from a young age. For white women, it might begin around pre-adolescence, around 9-13. For Women of Color, #YesALLWhiteWomen indicates they start having problems even younger. I would like to believe that it has gotten better with time... but sometimes I think that what changed is that I drive more than I walk.
Monday, April 21, 2014
This is a tough post to write. Suffice it to say, I don't plan to get a third degree from Purdue at this time. I enjoy learning, but as graduation approaches I am looking forward to having more time for my family and personal projects, including my garden and this blog. I'm very aware that "fear of studying at Purdue again" is my own superstition talking. Intellectually, I know that neither shooting had anything to do with me, or my status as an enrolled student.
I definitely recommend Purdue as a good school for students to attend. I have many fond memories of the place.
Campus safety is something that all colleges, universities, and other institutions work hard to accomplish, and I believe that the Purdue University Police Department and the administration care about the students.
This is two for two now. Two degrees, two shootings. I know that I was away from campus both times. That I have not had to evacuate, or be in lock-down, and I don't know the victims.
So this is all indirect trauma. They were still closer to home than I like. Therein lies the story.
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Then I saw this post by Sociological Images, "To Whom is George Zimmerman a Hero? And Why" and it all came together.
I've come to realize that one of the things that makes me different from many of the Americans I have interacted with is my Brat heritage, growing up military. Now, we were only ever stationed State-side, so I didn't get the full-up expatriate Third-Culture Kid experience. Sometimes I call myself a Third Subculture Kid, because the Brat semi-suburban culture was very different from the rural culture my parents were raised in.
But I'm getting ahead of myself. Xykademiqz blogs about the experience of teaching female students, and how there's often a sharp dichotomy between the female students she develops a mentoring relationship with and the female students who seem to decide "this professor sucks."
Now, in engineering my experience with female Engineering professors is VERY limited. While Dr. Leah Jamieson was teaching at Purdue when I was an undergrad in Electrical Engineering, I never took one of her classes. I would have liked to take EPICS, which she established, but it just didn't fit into my Plan of Study.
So I only had one female professor for three classes as an undergrad. I thought she was very challenging, very tough, but an excellent teacher. Her classes were not in my major, only the first one counted for my degree, but I wanted familiarity with her field of study to help my own career. Grade-wise I struggled, but I feel like I learned so much from her classes.
So... as a woman in STEM and a Geek Girl, I've often preferred to be just "one of the guys," similar to "Honorary Dudeness..." but many of their descriptions of "Dudes" strike me more like the fraternity boy, suave and secure, which I didn't identify with. With the HDs often being sorority girls or from similar establishments.
In my experience, there are girls and women who do that "nose in the air" looking down on other women. Sometimes it's for being "uncool," fat, or unfashionable as described in those comments. Xykademiqz and her commentors connect it with a white, American attitude, which also fits with my experiences. Sometimes I've connected it with people who hadn't traveled outside of the country, who hadn't met or needed to work with people who looked or believed very differently from themselves.
I've seen it in person, online, and in letters to the editor, with people making statements like "We're all Christian here," and I think back to my awareness of how the Base Chapel would adapt, removing the cross for Friday night Shabbat, leaving it plain for Protestant services, turning it around to a crucifix for Catholic Mass... the awareness that Muslims and Hindus have other practices and may have other religious requirements.
And that, I think, is where the Sociological Images article ties in, with the boundary rigidity and tribalism. Homogeneity can be "tribal," and anyone who is not "Us" becomes one of "Them." I lived a year in a small, fairly homogeneous town, where very few of the students expected to go to college or to get out of town at all. When surrounded by people who look and believe very similarly, one doesn't have to take the same range of perspectives into consideration.
I would have thought that a college / university would broaden one's horizons. I know I met a wide variety of people on campus. But it doesn't come naturally to everyone. It takes a willingness to try new things, meet new people, be willing to step outside of one's self-segregated tribe and try being the odd one out. I was astonished to meet young, millennial coworkers who had managed to go to a major university and not learn from the international students on their campus.
My current engineering course is taught by a woman professor, and I am really enjoying her teaching. Some of the discussion board conversations with my fellow students... I've recommended to them the same things I'm saying here. See the campus. Walk through the Black Cultural Center, contact the Jewish or Muslim worship centers for opportunities to make a respectful visit, attend a lecture, ask questions, learn something. If there's a public invitation to a Divali event, Eid, or Asian New Year, fit some of those cultural events into your schedule, and get to know what they mean, how they fit into people's lives.
And, most of all, travel. Go out, see the world, meet new people, broaden your horizons, and think.
Thursday, February 20, 2014
In the Harvard Business Review article "Women Rising: The Unseen Barriers" (Registration required, paywall may exist), the authors explain that "Most women are unaware of having personally been victims of gender discrimination and deny it even when it is objectively true and they see that women in general experience it."
In my short class this spring, we discussed seven forms of power. Over the discussions, I asked my classmates to tell me where women stand on examples of those seven forms of power. Rather than answer the question, they spent two days arguing that a problem does not exist, because they could point to specific women who had achieved power.
Ignoring it works for them, because they are not affected by the problem. I do not have that luxury. One cannot solve a problem one does not acknowledge.
I answered my own questions:
- Expert power – 2012 doctorate degrees awarded[i]:
- Reward power
- Coercive power - Women make up less than 25% of most US reserve forces, less than 20% of active duty personnel, and the percentage decreases for Flag/general officers.
- Legitimate power
- Referent power - This is subjective.
- Informational power – Computer Scientist statistics:
- Personal power – This is subjective.
Sunday, November 3, 2013
I have some tenuous first thoughts that I want to make note of for later depth. I have a sense that they're all interconnected, but they aren't complete thoughts yet.
I've been a Geek for as long as I can remember. I was "Star Wars Katie" long before the internet existed.
But as a young, originally-conservative engineering student, I did not tend to identify with the feminism I encountered at that time, primarily newspaper articles with quotes from NOW.
Even as I became liberal over the course of my undergraduate studies, there were particularities to the ways in which I did or did not claim feminism. Many of these connect to my background as a military "brat", to my chosen career in STEM, and my own dreams as a Space Advocate.
When I was working on my M.A. in Humanities, I specifically tried to avoid "women's studies" classes, and sometimes the professors. I didn't think that I needed that type of understanding, particularly not for the work I was doing. I was not wholly successful, and two of the three women's studies professors I took classes with turned out to have a lot to teach me.
So when I started looking for other Geek Women online, I found the Geek Feminism blog. From there, I began to learn about intersectional feminism, a concept developed by Kimberle Crenshaw.
More recently, I read Sheryl Sandberg's Lean In and have been active in promoting STEM careers for women. I have many thoughts about the book, but have been busy with schoolwork and have not taken the time to fully analyze them.
So I recently discovered bell hooks review, "Dig Deep: Beyond Lean In." It is a powerful piece, well-written and passionate. I have been trying, in recent years, to understand feminism and go beyond the "faux feminism" that bell hooks disparages. I'm not sure how successful I am.
But just as I had struggles as an undergraduate, I have struggles with this piece now. I feel as if I am being called to choose between my work in corporate America and my caring for social justice. To choose between my career as an engineer and STEM advocate, and the "true feminist" ideal of remaking the world. I would like to think that by being who I am, where I am, here at the intersection of these issues, that maybe I could help find the common ground. Corporate Social Responsibility is a mainstream concern now, my business classes have nearly all addressed it.
Ah... that was the other piece. Changing the world someday. I saw "In the Heights" when it came to town. That could be another bundle of posts on female expectations...
I knew a young woman in Houston, that I would have sworn would change the world someday. But she won't now.
Probably not a coherent post. Like I said, the hope is that I can come back to these issues and create good essays on them later.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
I've been very busy, as usual. Summer business classes are over, the fall engineering class has begun. I think I forgot how comparatively easy business classes are vs. the mathematics of engineering.
I finally read "Lean In" over Labor Day weekend, and will probably write something about that eventually. The short-short version is that it was better than I expected.
Chorus is in rehearsal. Over the summer I started taking real dance for the first time ever, (Well, I square danced in college as part of a club. I'm not counting that.) and I'm keeping it up this year. It's not martial arts, but it is fun, challenging, kinesthetic, and these things make me happy.
I plan to pull together thoughts I've learned about online classes. Things that work, things that don't work for me, ways instructors can help out distance learning students. It's going to take some time, since I have other higher priorities right now.
The whole point being, I'm not doing a lot of long-form blogging right now. Feel free to follow me on Twitter (@stargazer412) and Tumblr (a similar handle, linked to my Twitter account) for the ultra-short and short forms. When I read the news, I usually queue a lot of articles about a variety of topics: books, movies, geeky things (both SF / Fantasy and STEM), career and business articles.